Why do many people think that you should not open your heart? What is the reason for the general tendency to hide their feelings?
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Answered on December 1, 2014 18:09
And I will tell you why. Because people today do not appreciate the open heart, as soon as they see this they immediately rush to spit in it. I myself am a supporter of open relations between people and I would very much like to be open in communication. But so many times I received a negative for it in response, that I’m not sorry for this more. In order to open your heart to someone, you need to be sure that nothing “sort of” will get you there, and then it’s not very pleasant to live with such a bad guy in your heart. The trend you are talking about is a defensive reaction, this is a time. And then generation after generation was not taught to communicate normally, hence - not everyone knows how to do it openly.Hid all their feelings under the seven locks, that's why our society looks insensitive. But I think somewhere there is still something warm in people, and when I meet such a person, I, too, would like to share my warmth and my feelings.